Salsa Etitquettes

Hey Friends,
Hope you all are doing good and having fun in your life.
Well i thought to compile few of the salsa etiquettes for you all just to have a look, I have compiled it from different websites so yes i havent wrote the entire thing but yes compiled it for our own benefit and reference and added few comments too :)
Most of them who all are dancing might already know this and can very well ignore it, but few who are beginners do care to go through it :)
So as it always go.....Ladies first :)
Ladies ...
A successful salsa strategy toward dancing all night, apart from knowing how to dance, is to be seen dancing. Guys are generally a shy lot, but if they know you can and will dance, you'll be dancing all night.

So...Select a good dance club or studio. A place with a wide range of ages works best. Some of those older guys can really dance! Live music is rarely good dance music - most bands seem oblivious to what a good salsa tempo might be.

Wear something bright and colorful, and/or slinky and sexy - just be sure, whatever it is, it's noticeable! Dance places can be dim as dusk, so make sure you don't blend into the shadows. Arrive early and position yourself as close to the dance floor as possible. Sit or stand near the dance floor, preferably where guys coming off the floor will see you first. And, oh yeh, don't congregate with a group of women. No guy is going to walk up to several women hanging together and risk that kind of rejection.

Smile till it hurts! If you don't look like you're enjoying yourself, you probably won't be! Don't be afraid to make eye contact. Say, "Yes!" to the first dance offer, no matter who it is, and keep on saying it. This is the most important rule! Being picky is counter-productive, so lose the attitude! If you're seen saying no, you'll be left with only the blind and the bold - a small, and not necessarily cute, minority. The point of saying yes every time is to increase your chances of meeting talented, interesting dance partners. If you do this right, good dancers will soon monopolize your time anyway. Ask good dancers to teach you something new! They'll usually be happy to oblige and will seek you out in the future.

Oh, and don't chew gum - or if you have to, do it with your mouth closed.

Guys ...
Some of the above and then...

Find a smiling gal who's near the dance floor and ask her to dance. But for godsake, learn how to, first, and remember - smooth is as good or better than fancy! A couple of basic steps done correctly and on tempo is more fun for your partner than a dozen pretzel turns done badly with the timing all screwed up.

Avoid dancing roughly - like pulling your partner's arm out of its socket. It's bad form. Remember, you want to look good, and you can look really good if you make your partner look good. Make eye contact - dancing is about communication.

Dance with all sorts of partners, it'll make you a better dancer, not to mention, it'll make you seem like a nice guy.

ALSO, if you haven't showered, shaved, or brushed your teeth for a while, it might be a good idea to do that first! You don't want women to be pointing you out for the wrong reasons!

Dance Floor Etiquette ...
Yes, there are rules about dance floor rights and wrongs. Here are some of them...

It's not cool to stand right ON the dance floor to socialize. Even experienced dancers, who should know better, sometimes stand right on the dance floor talking, drinking, smoking. Do what you like, but do it AWAY from the dance floor!
Speaking of which... be nice to fellow dancers and avoid bumping into them. If it's crowded on the floor - and these days most floors are crowded, dance small. Most important, try to remember, your partner is not disposable - don't toss her around like a bowling ball.
A hardwood dance floor should be treated with care. Drinks and cigarettes on the dance floor are a NO NO! When you spill liquid on a hardwood floor, it becomes a hazardous wet spot. Even when it dries, this spot is pretty much ruined for dancers the rest of the night because it becomes "tacky" and you can't slide across it.
If you are a beginner dancer, remember that everyone out there has probably experienced that same sweaty palm, stiff-as-a-board, jittery feeling. It will pass.
If you or your partner screw up a step, get past the urge to argue about who's screwing up. Remember - there are no mistakes! It's ONLY dancing, and everyone's there to have fun.

If you're a woman who's not being asked to dance, try standing near the edge of the dance floor; smile, tap your foot, and look like you really NEED to dance to this song. Make eye contact. Dance with the first person who asks. Once you get out there a couple of times with different partners, other potential partners will know you won't turn them down. ALSO, don't be afraid to ask guys to dance. It's cool!
If you are asked to dance, you should politely accept. If you do not want to dance when asked, you should politely say no, but should not ignore the person or walk away (manners, manners, manners!!). This is a mature minded environment and everybody is expected to treat each other with respect.

If you say no when asked for a dance, you should ‘generally’ not dance with anyone until the next song. ....remember this ladies :)

If a lady says ‘no’ do not pester her, be polite and ask somebody else. If a guy says 'no', don't take it personally or be put off - guys can sometimes dance 5 - 7 songs continuously and may need a breather. Salsa welcomes everybody, the etiquette ensures everybody feels comfortable and relaxed in the environment and, therefore, have a great time.

Most people dance 1 song, then change dance partners or take a rest. However, if you like dancing with the person, then you can ask them to carry on dancing but remember do not monolpolise a partner, other people may want a turn. Both dance partners are expected to say thank you at the end of a dance.

Be considerate to others when you are dancing. On a busy dance floor you need dance to a smaller space, don't go wild dancing like you just been released from the middle of the earth and keep bumping into others (and kindly say sorry, if you do).

Salsa is a close dance, so personal hygiene is very important. We don’t want anyone suffocating when you raise your arms (ok that is a joking …but really we don’t want that happening!!!).

A chewing gum or mint is also a very good idea. You should also carry a small face towel or something to dry yourself if you get a bit sweaty.Which i generally do :)

One point that bears repeating, and can't be made strongly enough is: DON'T dance in a way that's going to invite a problem or result in collisions with nearby couples. All too often, I've seen dancers on a crowded floor with no consideration whatever for other dancers. I think the problem is more of an "ego" thing than a lack of dance etiquette. I've seen otherwise excellent dancers, who should know better, do stuff they shouldn't be doing simply because they get into their "performance" mode and suddenly they're leading with their elbows and their butts - their brains totally turned off. They bump nearby dancers and swing their partners around to clear more space for themselves. Short of physical confrontation, and sometimes it comes to that, there isn't a lot that can be done. You can either bump back, or move. The choice depends on the state of your own ego and the size of the offending dancer.

Lead with your brain, not your butt, and make the effort to be more aware and considerate of your dance environment. Otherwise, some of us will need to sign up for karate classes to go with our salsa classes. ...

So Keep on dancing :)

Guys i want to start this post by a post which i had wrote earlier, those days i used to get time to watch UTV world movies and this one is a sought of a review of a movie called as Priceless, if you are interested , get hold of a CD.

Yesterday (4th june 2009) i was surfing channels on tv after my hectic work in office i stumbled upon a french movie called as priceless on UTV world movies.

What glued to me to this movie initially was the female lead of the movie which i thought i have seen here somewhere, oooh no dont mistaken me for an avid traveller who goes all the way to cannes or french reviera to met some gliterattis and whos who....but hold on i must have seen her in a movie but which?
yes someday i wish to travel that far too....thats a diferent issue.

The films plot revolves around "Irene", a woman who enjoys the finer things in life but will not get them the normal way, i.e., by getting a job and saving up to buy them. Instead, she uses her good looks and her charms to woo wealthy man, usually older than herself, and extract lavish gifts from them. She sticks around until she gets bored, or until the guy wises up and dumps her.

Her ultimate goal is to marry one of these fools and be set for life.
Sometimes i feel what is the difference in her and a prostitute?

Still my mind was wondering who is she and in which movie i saw her?

At a posh hotel in the south of France, she meets Jean (Gad Elmaleh), a bartender whom she mistakenly thinks as a millionaire. (Imagine her delight or may i say plight: This guy's actually her own age and actually kind of handsome! She will be the envy of all her gold digger friends.) Jean realizes her mistake and plays it up for as long as he can; fortunately, the movie only dabbles in the comedy of that mistaken identity for a few minutes before moving on. Jean is deeply smitten with Irene, so much that even after she realizes he's poor and is angry at him for wasting her time, he continues to gladly bankrupt himself just to be with her.

At one point he offers her a one-euro coin for 10 seconds of her time. He spends the 10 seconds gazing at her with huge love-struck eyes.
I felt this scene was really good but what lacked here was a good background score to backup the lead pairs.

Anyways but by now my mind was hooked on to the movie forgetting,"who is the actoress?"

In the process of wooing Irene the honest, non-monetary way (which is of no use for irene as she is shrewd and a gold digger), Jean finds himself the object of someone else's affection: Madeleine (Marie-Christine Adam), a wealthy widow of may be late 50s.
She happily treats him with expensive clothes and watches in exchange for being her arm candy. The two are staying togather at a hotel on the

French Riviera, with Irene and her latest find (read a wealthy bakra ) at the place across the street. Irene and Jean meet regularly whenever they could , first so that she can give him gold-digging tips, and eventually because she's realizing her fondness for him.

Ahh now it gets interesting, for a gold digger Irene falling for a honest guy Jean.

In all the movie can be watched with family, yes you might think in all this gold digging thing and lifestyle and with all splitsvilla and roadies making enteries in our household,still this is a film where there is no nudity or may be less if you feel wearing a bikini can be termed as nudity then yes some nudity, i feel director never wanted to show this.

Hmm now my ghajini effect is over,suddenly i realised this actoress was in the movie "Da Vinci Code" opposite "Tom Hanks" and also lead in film "Amelie" in 2001.She is Audrey Tautou as Irene.

Now what happens next its for you to watch out....do bring in a dvd or may be watch out the schedule on UTV world movies.

I have seen this movie all with subtitles...as they say
"Music has no language....should i say.....
A good film can be understood and felt no matter in which language it is made?

By the way i would love to travel that far to french riviera if i get Irene...hahahaha

A feel good and light hearted movie for lazy afternoon/evening !!